Saturday, December 1, 2012

REACHING GOALS

So many goals I set for myself end up abandoned half way through the course.  Many things can get in the way of reaching the finish line:  laziness, boredom, time management, not believing in me, discouragement when I hit the ‘wall’, temptation, disappointment when it doesn’t go the way I want it to, giving up on myself or others, setting unrealistic goals, poor planning, fear of success, and the list goes on and on…  I choose to reevaluate my goals today.
First, I will assure that they are reasonable and in line with my values and integrity.  Then, I will access my desire to attain the goal.  Do the pros of reaching this goal outweigh the cons of failure?  Next, I will break my goal into manageable steps.  I will examine what I am able and ready to do and then hold myself responsible for taking some action today towards my goal.  I will acknowledge the progress I make no matter how small and affirm myself for moving forward.  I will encouraged myself with reminders of past successes and remember the strength I possess.  I will comfort and reassure myself during the difficult moments today and recognize that setbacks are only temporary and to be expected.  I will get the support I need to cheer me on and back me up.  I know the destination isn’t as important as the journey and I choose to value today's journey.
 

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