Who creates the stress in my head? I do.
When I ruminate on details endlessly and think of every possible way I
could do something, I add to my ‘stress-meter’.
When I imagine everything that might go wrong, filling my mind with
‘what-if’s’ and probabilities, I increase my worry. When I criticize for the tiniest of flaws and
expect myself or others to be perfect, I become frazzled. When I spend time re-playing things that
didn’t go the way I wanted them to go and shame myself and others endlessly for
not living up to my expectations, I create unhappiness and
dissatisfaction. These thoughts leave me
feeling tense, jittery, paralyzed and full of anxiety, certainly not ready and
open to life.
Today, I choose to have more mindfulness about the thoughts
I put in my head. I will breathe and
relax allowing myself to just be. When
unsettling, troubling thoughts attempt to knock on the door of my
consciousness, I will send them away like unwelcomed guests. When I discover upset or worry have taken
residence within, I will soothe and reassure myself remembering that right now
in this moment all is well. I will
breathe in peace and exhale the tension I find within, transforming my worries
into tiny pieces of fluff that float away and dissolve. Right now all is well.
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