Holding Up the Mirror

It has been challenging, at times, to see myself as I really am.  A distorted image that says I am a selfish, mean-spirited, cold-hearted, undeserving, stupid, ugly, shameful person can call my name and try to convince me it’s real.  I feel VERY fortunate to have had good friends over the years that have held up mirrors for me to look into.  They have listened, accepted and validated my thoughts, feelings, and needs.  They have seen through the distortion I believed to my very essence.   Through their actions, words and eyes, my friends helped me clean my inner mirror so it reflects a more true and authentic vision of who I am.  I will always be grateful for this generous gift.

Today, it is my intention to be a compassionate and clear reflection pond for the many others I meet who struggle to see through their own distorted inner mirror.   I will hold up the mirror for them just as others have held it up for me.  It’s probably the most precious gift I could ever pass on.  What a re-gift!