GRATITUDE FOR FRIENDS

The moments that seem to matter the most and bring the most joy are those filled with friendship and connection.  The relationships I have invited and fostered in my life have been numerous and assorted.  Some weren’t always healthy, they were stifling or disrespectful and I’ve had to cut them loose in order to grow and change.  Some relationships have ended before I was ready for them to end.  Some of them have persevered and continued despite the odds, we have hung in there with each other through thick and thin.  Some have weathered the storms and some are brand new, just beginning.  Some I can’t imagine my life without, they are as close as the air I breathe and others are distant but wonderful when they are near.  Some focus on certain tasks and responsibilities and others transcend doing and are just about being together.

I am very thankful for the gift of friendship, whether they have worked or not.  They have taught me so many lessons, sometimes painful and difficult, but often joy-filled.  I have learned who I am and who I’m not.  I have learned how to speak up while awkwardly practicing on my friends.  I have learned to listen without an agenda and hear the message beyond the words.  I have learned to give and receive forgiveness and compassion.  I have learned to say goodby and grieve loss.  I have learned to play and trust, letting go of my rigidity and fear.  I feel very fortunate for the many gifts and blessings my friends have provided.  I am grateful.