Assumptions are not my friend. They enter into my relationships uninvited
and create endless drama, chaos and discord.
Sometimes, they gatecrash and are part of my thinking without invitation. Sneaky little devils they are, I’m already in
the midst of self-righteous attack mode when suddenly I am made aware of their
presence. I realize the simple ‘virus-protection’
against assumptions is checking out that I have understood your intention and
heard you correctly before I respond to what you say and do. However, often I am so anxious to make you
understand me that I forget to take time to listen to you.
Today, I choose to listen more thoroughly and
consciously. I will slow down and make
sure I hear not only your words and actions but also your intention and I will
remain conscious of my own interpretations and judgments. I will not jump to conclusions rather I will
take time to understand what is going on and offer you the respect I would want
when you listen to me. This is my intent
for the day.
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